“Big Girl”

So one of my biggest pet peeves is being called a “big girl”. Ugghhhhh….I just want to throat punch people who call me that or any girl I know. Say tall ya big meanie, not big. Hugh difference! But then it got me to thinking 🤔 why does it bother me so much? I am not a small girl. I am 5’10”, I have size 10 feet and I currently weigh 160 lbs. According to the national average (which I did not look up) I am in fact a big girl. Why can’t I own it and say yes, I got a nice solid frame and I can see over all you peasants. I should be proud to be me because I come from good stock. Whoever said being 5’2″ and 110 lbs was the ideal anyways? I think I am going to start owning being a “big girl” and calling myself it like it’s the shit.

Let’s take it back girls and any guy that doesn’t like it, just simple isn’t meant for you. Or he is lying about being 6 feet tall 🙂 One thing that actually helped me improve my self-esteem in this area was I read something somewhere that said something along the lines of, “How dare you think you aren’t perfect, who do you think you are to question gods work?” It’s true, god made us all perfect and we all have gifts to give the world and we shouldn’t question his work. I, Sylvia Roy, was born September 9, 1986 from the hands of god. He made me the exact way I should be and I am forever grateful for it.

PS. I also have big teeth, big ears, a big butt, big hair and wait for it…..small boobs. Real fair eh?! But guess what, it some how all works perfectly and I love myself. I hope that each and every one of you embraces your differences and celebrates them, except for the people who call tall girls big hahaha



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